“Ten Commandment of Sports - for Parents”

1. Be sure that your child knows that ...win or lose, scared or heroic...you love him, appreciate his efforts, and are not disappointed in him.
2. Try your best to be completely honest about your child’s athletic capability, his competitive attitude, his sportsmanship...and his ACTUAL skill level.
3. Be helpful...but do not coach him on the way to the field, pool, or court - or on the way back - or at breakfast.
4. Teach him to enjoy the thrill of competition...do not say, “Winning does not count”, because it does.
5. And hear this, parents: try not to relive your athletic life through your child in a way that creates pressure...do not pressure him because of your pride.
6. Do not compete with the coach...remember, in many cases the coach becomes a hero to his athletes, a person who can do no wrong.
7. Do not compare the skill, courage or attitude of your child with that of other members of the squad or team...at least not in his hearing.
8. You should also get to know the coach so that you can be sure that his philosophy, attitudes, ethics, and knowledge are such that you are happy to expose your child to him.
9. Always remember that children tend to exaggerate, both when praised and when criticized. Temper your reactions when they bring home tales of woe... or heroics.
10. And finally...make a point of understanding courage and the fact that it is relative. Some of us climb mountains but fear a fight...some of us fight but turn to jelly if a bee buzzes nearby. A child must know: Courage is not ABSENCE of fear, but rather, doing something in SPITE of fear.

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Calvert Hall College High School is a private Catholic college preparatory high school for boys, located in Baltimore, Maryland. Our mission is to foster Men of intellect, Men of faith, and Men of integrity in the Lasallian tradition.